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    Updated: 15-Jun-2007

Angry Anchoring
7/13/03
Blaine Parks
        

     It always feels good to be underway after an extended stay in one place. And our first day's sail after leaving Bath, North Carolina for a summer's cruise to Maine and Nova Scotia couldn't have been more perfect. The sun reflected on the Pamlico River's coffee colored waters, a light breeze pulling Charbonneau towards one of our favorite anchorages: Green #23 just off the ICW at the southern mouth of the Alligator-Pungo Canal. Charbonneau glided into the anchorage at a little past five o'clock and wound her way around to a spot between the anchorage's only two inhabitants: a motor yacht and a lovely wooden schooner. With Janet at the helm and me at the bow, we ghosted up to a spot we'd picked out for the night's stay. It was the end of a flawless day, right up until a crewmember from the schooner began yelling at us.

     "You can stop right there," she yelled. "We don't want your anchor in our f**king cockpit." It was like someone grabbed the phonograph needle and ripped it across one of my favorite albums. For the first time in as long as I could remember, I was speechless. I looked around the anchorage to be sure that I hadn't made an error in calculating our spot. After all, I'd been anchoring in places for the last three years and had never had a complaint before I even had the anchor down. No, I was where I thought I was, with what I thought was plenty of space between the three of us. I looked back to Janet for support, but she couldn't hear what was said over the din of our motor. I did what any captain would do in that situation; I waved at the woman - notice I didn't say lady - screaming obscenities at us and dropped the anchor.

     With the appropriate amount of scope paid out and after backing down to set the anchor, I attached our snubber-line and walked back to the cockpit. I was still in shock as I relayed the nice woman's message to Janet. Taking in the distance from us to the schooner in a quick glance, Janet was as dumbfounded as I was. If we were too close, had we miscalculated all the other times we'd anchored? Could we be one of those boats who come in late and always anchor too close, making our neighbors talk about us in whispers? I could feel eyes burrowing into my back and turned around to see my new neighbor glaring at us with her hands on her hips. My ex-wife called this the female fighting stance; and by the looks of this four-foot square sailor with her hair whipped tightly into a ponytail, she could easily kick my butt.

     The anchorage at Green #23 is a fairly large area, normally. This time the anchorage was littered with more than the usual number of crab pots. Not wanting to have our anchor snag one of these traps - someone's livelihood - left us with fewer choices on where to anchor. We had picked what we thought was the best spot given the circumstances. As the sun dipped below the horizon into another spectacular sunset - one of the reasons we love this anchorage so much - I turned the events over and over in my head. Of course, now that I'd had time to reflect on the situation, I was full of snappy comebacks for Ms. Friendly. She'd really gotten to me. In place of all the nasty things I could say in return, I took some pictures and thought I'd plead my case to a more reasonable jury - you, the reader.

     Let me begin by outlining my understanding of the unwritten rules of anchoring. First, and most important, is the last in, first to move rule. If you are the last boat in the anchorage, you should in no way encumber any boat already anchored. If the wind shifts, or a current turns foul, and your boat becomes a hazard, you are the one who should move to a new spot. Any boats arriving after you've set your anchor should pay the same courtesy to you. Secondly, as the arriving boat, you should look at how other boats are anchored before setting your hook. If the other boats are all swinging to one anchor, do likewise. If everyone is set in a Bahamian moor with two anchors, set two to match your swinging radius to your neighbors.

     While not a concrete rule, it is considered rude to maneuver through the field of anchored boats and drop your anchor in the front. The more courteous approach is to drop your anchor somewhat offset from the last boat's stern. Never drop your anchor more than one-third of the way up another boat's stern. Doing so may leave you bumping in the night if the wind switches, which will leave you in the position of having to move, based on the first rule above. The goal is to have all the boats in a position where they have adequate room to swing without worry and can have some privacy within their cockpit.

     That brings us to the distance between boats. The best of all scenarios is to have the anchorage all to yourself. When two or more boats share an anchorage, we try to leave a minimum of a three boat-length distance between ourselves and the other boats; it's not always possible, but that is the goal. We don't want to be any closer to the other boats than necessary. Everyone sleeps better with a wider buffer area between the boats.

     There are times when we've had to really squeeze into an anchorage. If you cruise for any length of time, you'll find yourself in the same predicament. In these situations, we will normally motor up between two of the aft-most boats and drop our anchor between them, in line with their stern. That places us an equal distance from, and behind, both boats. We have cruising friends who break this rule with constant abandon, believing instead that if they anchor right on top of a known cruiser, they leave no room for anyone else to anchor between them and the experienced cruising boat. We don't advocate this line of thinking, but it does work for them.

     While not related to distance or courtesy, I should also mention that every other boat is watching as you anchor, especially the ones nearest where you drop the hook. This is where having hand signals and a highly polished technique really pays off. If you can glide into an anchorage, drop the hook, and back down to set it securely - all without a single word spoken between you and your helmsperson - you will gain an instant nod of respect and be given the benefit of the doubt when you may be a little close to others. Why? Because you've shown some practiced skill at anchoring. Come in the anchorage screaming commands and resetting the hook three times and your welcome will resemble the one we received from our friends on the pretty schooner. Though, I assure you that we came in as quiet as a mouse and looked like seasoned professionals.  (I shared a complete step-by-step anchoring guide in a previous article -- Mother Nature's Humor)

     So, I now return to my dilemma. Was I close enough to realistically offend the obscenity-spewing crew aboard the schooner? I think not. I would suggest to you, the jury, that I followed every rule I've learned in our more than 18,000 miles. We slid in without so much as rustling a bird from its perch in the nearby trees. We measured our distance with great care to find ourselves between the two other boats, closer, if at all, to the powerboat. I waved and smiled to our neighbors as we arrived. The powerboat returned the gesture and I thought the schooner was doing the same until I realized that there was only one finger waving at us. Despite all the yelling and finger waving, I never yelled back. (Don't I get points for good behavior?).

   
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     I believe that the only verdict you can return in this case is that I am innocent. I am simply a man accused of a crime that was never committed, against a victim who chose to vent her life's anger towards other nice boaters, like Janet and me. To protect you from the abuses we suffered, remember to follow the rules for good anchoring. And if you find yourself anchored near the Schooner Mary Harrigan, out of Norfolk, Virginia, please pass along our kindest regards; perhaps by signaling them with something that has international understanding like the one-finger wave they used to welcome us to Green #23, ruining an otherwise perfect day.

     We'll see you on the water - but don't anchor too close!